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January 1, 2012

Vayechi -- Parting Thoughts

My father died on December 30, 2010.

One year and two days later, I read about the death of Jacob/Israel and the tears of his son, Joseph.

A 'chapter' in the Torah concludes, as a 'chapter' in my life concludes. We are to mourn for 11 months, and then move on.

Joseph/We/I are never the same again. But we move on.

2 comments:

BeckyJanuary 2, 2012 at 12:59 PM
It is good to move on. You probably know this is not a smooth journey, that things happen which bring up the pain and make us feel raw suddenly. Someone's voice, a smell, a troubling thought--and suddenly we're right back where we thought we had left long ago. It's all part of the process, and each memory and insight can help us continue to grow.
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Natalie DJanuary 4, 2012 at 8:43 PM
Chuck,
I am always at a loss for the right words to say when someone is grieving or remembering a departed loved one. (Becky is so wonderful with her words, I strive to be more like her!) But I wanted to tell you that I think what you wrote is beautiful. I'm sure that was not your intention, but the simplicity of your words and the parallel between this parsha and your own life is so touching. Thank you for sharing!
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